Sex and pleasure begin long before the act itself. A spicy conversation, the preliminaries, all serve to excite her and let her imagination surface. Capriche in the chat and you will be surprised with the results.

You probably already know how to get her to orgasm in some positions, but some new positions can raise the level. Choose a moment where your partner is overexcited, and move to a new position. Get out of Mom and Dad a little, pick it up and put it on the wall, do something unexpected. There is no limit to the number of sexual positions available, look for the ones you like the most and what you always wanted to do, also think about getting out of bed and exploring the living room, the kitchen, an armchair, the washing machine, the living room table … options are not lacking! Talking about sex before or during sex is one of the best ways to make it all more exciting, and you probably already know that. Our brain is our greatest sexual apparatus, and it is able to promote even stronger orgasms, because we respond to the words that are spoken automatically.

Invest in the preliminaries to enjoy faster penetration. Many men usually feel that they want to enjoy it in the first few minutes of penetration, but they tend to hold it so the woman can get there too, but sometimes you may be holding so much that you can not enjoy it in the end. While doing this for the sake of your wife’s orgasm is great and often necessary, sometimes you just need to relieve yourself right away. What we suggest in these cases is that you invest in foreplay and pleasure her with oral sex or with your fingers, leaving her “ready” for penetration and so you can enjoy faster without much guilt, but do not this always because she also needs to enjoy herself.

Make It Relax. Being relaxed and comfortable is the biggest secret for her to achieve orgasm. If she is not completely committed to the idea of ​​enjoying, and intimately attached to you, your efforts will be of no use. Talk about something that excites you. Make her talk about your deepest sexual desires. Awaken her sexuality. Use smells she likes. Ask how she feels during an orgasm. Count your darkest desires for her. Listening to another person’s fantasies and desires always creates excitement.